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Kelsey Lamm Rottmuller (she | her)
LCPC, NCC
I am a licensed clinical professional counselor and sexuality coach and educator. I am also the founder and primary therapist of Wildwood Counseling and Coaching.
I am passionate about helping folks who don’t quite feel fully at home in their bodies learn how to connect and re-engage with their sexuality and most authentic expression of self.
The majority of my practice focuses on finding alignment and pleasure in expressing gender and sexual identity as well as healing after sexual, reproductive, or relationship trauma.
My approach is rooted in a person-centered philosophy while taking an integrative approach tailored to each client’s specific contexts and needs.
Prior to forming Wildwood, I worked at Concentric Counseling and Consulting and Chicago Counseling Associates; providing therapy services for individuals from adolescence through adulthood and folks in relationships. I also served youth survivors of sexual violence and their families as a rape crisis counselor and medical advocate.
My career journey started in the performing arts; working as a stage and production manager for theatre, circus, dance, and opera; based in Chicago, and touring across the US. It was while teaching stage management in higher education that my passion for working in the helping and healing professions became crystalized and my professional identity evolved.
On a personal note
I am an individual whose various lived experiences have curated my values of authenticity, self-awareness, and pursuing one’s passions; even if the path taken is not the one expected.
Through my journeys in personal trauma recovery, changing careers, moving around and across the country, and transitioning into parenthood; I have found humility, courage, and empowerment in changing course when the path I was on no longer aligned with who I am and what fulfills me.
My personal experiences as both a client and a therapist have shown me what can be endured, overcome, and achieved when given a safe harbor and relationships in which to explore and expand. As a member of both the neurodivergent and 2SLGBTQIA+ communities, I particularly enjoy supporting erotically marginalized folks.
I love and am honored by the work I do! As one who strives to nurture all aspects of my life, I like to recharge alone as well as with my family, friends, and fur-babies. To feel at my best within myself and in relationships with others, I spend as much time as I can in the natural world; backpacking, hiking, rock climbing, collecting crystals, camping, and general adventuring. The outdoor photos featured throughout this website are of places I have had the great privilege of traversing, and been able to capture (either myself or photo credit to Sophie Kempf) ‘on film’ to carry with me off-trail.
In my leisure time, I also enjoy practicing yoga, meditation, diving down documentary rabbit holes, and engaging with the arts that were central to my first career as a production and stage manager.
Credentials
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in IL (LCPC) | Coming soon: Licensed Professional Counselor in CO (LPC)
National Certified Counselor (NCC)
Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP)
ADHD Certified Clinical Services Provider (ADHD-CCSP)
Member of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT)
Usui Reiki Level I Practitioner (Usui Shiki Ryoho)
Dr. Gabor Maté
“Every human has a true authentic self. Trauma is the disconnection from it and healing is the reconnection to it”
Esther Perel
“Our need for togetherness exists alongside our need for separateness”
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Also known as client-centered therapy, this approach is grounded in the idea that people are inherently motivated toward achieving positive psychological functioning. The client is believed to be the expert in their life and invited to take a more active role in the therapeutic relationship, while the therapist takes a non-directive role.
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Integrative therapy is an individualized, holistic approach to therapy that combines ideas and techniques from multiple therapeutic orientations to address a client’s unique concerns.
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Expressive Arts therapy uses creative expression to help people heal and express themselves, while nurturing deep personal growth and transformation.
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Somatic therapy is a form of body-centered therapy that looks at the connection of mind and body and uses both talk and physical therapies for holistic healing. The therapist may use mindfulness to direct the client’s focus to the energy and wisdom of the body.
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Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) draws from attachment theory and aims to improve intimate relationships by rekindling the physical and emotional bond that can get sacrificed to disappointment in a partner and alienation from them. With the guidance of the therapist, partners are led to discover the unmet need for closeness that lies under their anger or alienation.
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The Gottman Method examines interactive patterns that lead to distress and rupture in relationships. This approach is founded on the belief that couples who function effectively treat each other with consideration, and are supportive of each other.
Goals of this approach include increasing closeness and friendship behaviors, addressing conflict productively, and building a life of shared meaning together.
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Internal Family Systems (IFS) is an approach that identifies and addresses multiple sub-personalities within each person’s mental system. This system consists of wounded parts and painful emotions such as anger and shame, and parts that try to control and protect the client from the pain of the wounded parts.
IFS focuses on healing the wounded parts and restoring mental balance and harmony by addressing dynamics and conflict between the inner parts.
If you liked the animated ‘Inside Out’ movies — this approach might be for you!
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Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) is an action-oriented approach stemming from behavioral theories. Clients learn to stop avoiding, denying, and struggling with their inner emotions and, instead, accept that these deeper feelings are appropriate responses to certain situations that should not prevent them from moving forward in their lives.With this understanding, clients begin to accept their hardships and commit to making necessary changes in their behavior.
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Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) is a structured approach with a strong educational component designed to provide skills for managing intense emotions and negotiating social relationships.
The “dialectic” in dialectical behavior therapy is an acknowledgment that real life is complex, and health is not a static thing but an ongoing process.
DBT acknowledges the need for change in a context of acceptance of situations and recognizes the constant flux of feelings—many of them contradictory—without having to get caught up in them. The therapist guides clients to understand and accept that thought is an inherently messy process.
Therapeutic Approaches
Master of Education in Clinical Mental Health Counseling (DePaul University)
Certificate in Sex Therapy & Sexuality Education (University of Michigan SHCP)
Gottman Method Couples Therapy Level I (The Gottman Institute)
Treating Complex Trauma with Internal Family Systems (Frank Anderson)
EMDR for Treating PTSD and Complex Trauma (Dr. Arielle Schwartz and Stacy Ruse)
Conscious Breathwork (The Breathing Room)
Sexual Assault Crisis Counselor Certification (Illinois Coalition Against Sexual Assault)
Impact of Trauma on Relationships (NICAM)
Reproductive Trauma: Infertility, Pregnancy Loss, Birth Trauma, and Perinatal Mental Health (Dr. Janet Jaffe)
Autism, LGBTQIA+, and The Intersectionality of Gender and Sexuality (Dr. Wenn B. Lawson)
Men's Sexual Health Myths (AASECT)
Bringing Baby Home: The Transition to Parenthood (The Gottman Institute)
Multiple Securities: Navigating Consensual Non-monogamy and Attachment (KPACT)
Working with Mixed Desire (Kink/Vanilla) Relationships (UofM SHCP)
The Transformative Power of Eros (Ergos Institute of Somatic Education)
Sex Beyond the Binary: Re-Visioning Sex Therapy for Every Body (UofM SHCP)
Working with Transgender Clients Across the Lifespan (Chicago Counseling Associates)
Unsettling Genders: Honoring Emergent & Indigenous Conversations of Diversity (AASECT)
Black Men and Racial Trauma (UofM SHCP)
Incorporating Psychedelic Medicines for Treating Complex Trauma and PTSD (PESI)
Managing ADHD Across the Lifespan (PESI)
Disordered and Emotional Eating and Body Image (PESI)
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) (PESI)